Puri Duwur Abing: Finding a Family in Bali


I’ve landed in paradise! It’s budget paradise, but still paradise to me!

Our poolside fountain art - the man and women are classic Balinese figures used to decorate many entrances (and poolsides, I guess).

We’ve moved into a hybrid family compound/villa. The Balinese traditionally live together — a village within a village – where uncles, fathers, brothers, husbands, and nephews sit around playing cards while aunts, mothers, sisters, wives, and nieces chat in communal work areas. The “streets” inside the encompassing wall are filled with activity as people come and go, children totter from one house to the next, and chickens cluck their way from building to building.

We don’t have chickens, aunts, uncles, nieces, or nephews, but Puri Duwur Abing still has the communal atmosphere of a traditional compound — with just enough privacy.

The Perils of House Hunting in Bali


Does it feel safe to get on a motorbike with a woman half my size? No, it does not. Is it safe to cruise mindlessly down a sidewalk in Bali? No, it is not. But I would find myself engaged in both of these activities while on a quest for an apartment in Ubud, Bali — a gorgeous Indonesian island of international fame.

West Meets East: how my parents survived Bali – Part II


I don’t know how we fit so much fun into so little time! Here are the highlights from the final days of my parent’s visit to Bali:

Plantation Princess in the warehouse - the strips are bound into blocks of equal quality rubber (5 grades), then shipped for further processing.

We set out one afternoon, not knowing we’d end up on a fascinating, last-minute, happenstance plantation tour. I’d gotten a local to tell us where the government management office was. We showed up late in the day, played charades with a few security men who didn’t speak English, and wandered around the office grounds. We were about to take off when a man in a Panama hat drove up on a motorbike. Not only did he speak English, but he was the plantation tourism director! To our delight, he agreed to clock back in in spite it being after-hours.

West Meets East: how my parents survived Bali – Part I


A quick summary, to orient non-regular readers:

Starting in October 2010, Pat and I spent a year in New Zealand, two months in the Philippines, and a month-and-a-half in mainland SE Asia (Thailand, Laos, and Cambodia). My parents’ mystical calendar-of-things-that-shall-be decreed that they spend Christmas 2011 with me. Schedules and finances demanded that we move Christmas to the following March. I told them to pick someplace in SE Asia. As a result, we spent a week housed at Medewi Bay Retreat exploring the island of Bali, Indonesia!

So besides survive a flash flood, what else did we do? Tons.

Life Flashes Before Eyes in Flash Flood


I knew, any second, the torrent of brown water was going to start coming in through the car doors. I watched the current drag along all sorts of jungle debris, adrenaline pumping as my mind flashed between survival scenarios.

Bali Beginnings: Asia meets Latin America


A testament to how beautiful Bali is: the guy behind me on the plane flying in couldn’t snap enough photos. It sounded like a fashion shoot was happening behind my seat!

You Never Know When Someone is Watching


The hordes of tourists that crowd Bangkok’s Khao San area can be a great source of entertainment and fascination. Hanging out in the neighborhood for two weeks, I had lots of time to observe both Thailand and tourists.

Khao San: Vegas of the Tropics?


Khao San: Vegas of the Tropics?

Bangkok’s Khao San “backpacker ghetto” certainly isn’t the “real” Thailand, but I wasn’t looking for a culture fix after Beth left.   Really, I just needed a place where I could work uninterrupted for hours on end. Where a healthy, delicious, cheap snack was never more than 100 steps in any direction. Really, I just needed a break. “A break from traveling?!,” you ask. “How could that be?!”. Well, as Peter Moore says in No Shitting in the Toilet,

Going to the Doc in Bangkok: how a broken ankle can make you a celebrity


Seeing a Thai orthopedist to check on my busted ankle blew my mind. In spite of possessing at least a handful of functioning brain cells, I’ve still been socialized to believe everything in America is the best and everything outside of America is not the best.

Not just American medical care –  Hollywood American medical care.

My subconscious set me up. I knew about Thailand’s international reputation for fantastic medical care. But somehow, I still expected an exam room from a 1950’s time warp. Not even the sets of ER, Scrubs, House, or Grey’s Anatomy, which one assumes represent quality American medical care, could have prepared me.